Beyond lables: Defying stereotypes and celebrating individuality

In a world where stereotypes are all too common, we wanted to hear from people who have broken free from them and are proud of it. We reached out to several people and asked them to share a stereotype they’ve shattered. Their inspiring and thought-provoking answers not only showcase their individuality but also highlight the beauty of a diverse, progressive and inclusive community,we’re proud to be part of.

Here are some of the responses we received:

• I am a man but my sister drives better than me.
• I am comfortable discussing periods with my female friends.
• I am 25 and yet I have never been in any relationship or I would rather say not interested in being in a relationship.
• I really want to settle down…. with my friends to binge watch social documentaries
• I am a modern woman and I do love wearing modern clothes…. But my first love is sarees.
• Not allowing people’s version of success, personhood or productivity define how I live my life. Also, holding space for people to do and be whoever they want to be.
• Women should prioritise family over career, I am choosing to pursue my career and ambitions as well as balancing family life in my own way.
• Proud to break the stereotype around the work ethics of women. As part of Blogchatter’s predominantly-women team, we are hugely professional and successful. And the support we give each other at our workplace is amazing.
• I am 24, and love being able to support my family financially without working in the IT sector. Also, I prefer riding bikes and cars over scooty anytime.
• Not all South Indians oil their hair and wear jasmine!
• An amazing and fulfilling life is possible post disability.
• I am a Catholic married in a Bihari home.
• Sleeping in till 12 PM despite being a wife, daughter-in-law and mother.
• Being a daughter, I can take care of my parents’ expenses.
• I had my child at 38.
• That all women need to be married and have kids. I am neither married, nor do I have kids.
• I am a Gujarati well versed in English, also an author!
• I began to have open conversations around LGBTQ+ with my family and they have begun to understand.
• I am identifying patriarchal customs within my home and refusing to go by them.
• I don’t wear sindoor, mangalsutra, rings, toe rings even though I am married.
• Did not take my husband’s surname post marriage.
• I choose to not have children.

We found it mindblowing to listen to these stories breaking stereotypes.

They speak of the importance of embracing our unique identities and rejecting societal norms that seek to define and limit us. Each person’s story showcases their strength and individuality, proving that there is no one right way to live our lives. By celebrating diversity and inclusivity, we create a world where people are free to be themselves without fear of judgment or prejudice. We hope that these inspiring stories inspire others to break free from stereotypes and live their truth.